“No, you can’t see our child!” If you have ever said or wrote those words or any similar derivative, you are the problem. Yep, re-read the sentence as many times as needed. It’s not them, it’s you.
Every child brought into this world through the traditional method (sex in a relationship) is entitled to a connection with both parents. This is not a privilege of which you oversee. This is a right. Yes, we are living in the millennium and there are many ways of how children are brought into families, but I’m speaking specifically about relationship births only.