Are you owed something if you make an investment? That investment may come in many forms, so may the return on that investment. In thinking about relationships, one may consider their money or time spent during the relationship as an investment. If that relationship ends, are you owed something? If the relationship progresses, do you consider that a return on your investment?
I know a former couple in which one party traveled quite frequently to spend time with the other. While together, the other party took care of all the other expenses during their romantic excursions. Although the traveler spent a significantly larger amount of money for their togetherness, they thought of it as an investment into the relationship. When that relationship ended, the traveler wanted reimbursement for the overage in costs (their travel expenses –amounts their partner spent for weekend expenses = the return they wanted back). They wanted to make things equal because overall, their investment did not result in the anticipated gains for either of them. Continue reading Relationship Investments and Balance Sheets